Do you ever wonder why a single woman will try and talk to a married man or a man in a realtionship but turn their noses up to a SINGLE man that might talk to a few different women? Do they flock to the committed man thinking they will commit to them? Are they desperate for attention? Do they enjoy the thrill of being the other woman? Oh, don't let them get in a realtionship, they will be ready to slash the tires of another woman that looks too long at their man, lol.
Do you have a secret that is eating at you? So many people have things that they hold in, not wanting anyone to know due to the fear of rejection or being judged. You should always have someone that will listen to you, allowing things to fester and build is a deadly combination.
Who do you tell your deep dark secrets to?
Everyone has met a woman so heart broken and distraught from a past relationship they were hurt in; she focuses all her attention on how to get even with the one that damaged them or even try and destroy the new relationship their ex is in. Strong is the woman that learns from the mistakes of a past relationship and uses that knowledge to prevent herself form making those same choices again.
Are you that strong woman?
Would you choose a man with all the money in the world that had nothing to offer you mentally or an average Joe that didnt have much but was rich in spirit? So many women choose a man that has a fat bank account and wouldn`t mind getting a fat lip, because he goes upside your head the first time you talk back or step out of line, not to mention having to deal with the three other women in his life, just to walk around with a name brand bag or red at the bottom of their shoes. It's so crazy that the decent man that wants to take you to dinner, have a real coversation and doesnt mind having one woman are what is so commonly known as "thirsty." What is thirsty about being respected and appreciated by a man? We are queens, worth more than a pair of heels or designer hand bags.
Do you know your worth?
I am a kept woman:
There were times when I didn't know if I was coming or going, left or right, but God kept me with guidence.
There were times when I didn't have a roof over my head, God kept me with shelter. There were times when I was so depressed and could have lost my mind, God kept me sane. There were times when I thought I was all alone, God kept me with comfort.
How has God kept you?
There are many types of personalities one can have, here are a few:
Sensitive: Everything hurts your feelings or gets on your nerves
Passive: You believe everything you hear. You follow, not lead
Strong: You have a mind of your own, you don't get easily discouraged
Kind: You do things from your heart, always giving and barely receiving
Senseless: Lack of caring about anything or anyone.
Keep in mind that you can be a mixture of all these personalities plus others, which are you?
I recently attended a block party. I was there for fellowship and the
pleasure of being around my friends and family for a good time however, I was
also there to promote my book. Honestly, I expected to run into a lot of hating
a** women that wanted to turn their noses up when I asked them to help me
promote. To my surprise, they were very encouraging and were so excited to be
apart of this positive movement..guess the saying is true "never judge a book by
Do you feel as women that we judge before we truly know a person?
Throughout my many years, I have met many women and I can't think of two that honestly thought exactly alike. I believe this is what makes each of us unique in our own way. I myself am an innovative thinker. I can sell water to a well, and that's what makes me the successful person that I am now. So ladies, what type of thinker are you?
A Critical thinker analyzes situations through information gathering, evaluating all aspects and implements a course of action
A Conceptual thinker connects the dots for a complete picture
An Implementer organizes ideas to carry out plans effectively
An Innovator creates new ways and ideas to discover possibilities and opportunities
An Intuitive thinker takes what you sense to be true without evidence or knowledge then factors to a final decision.