Baggage

There are so many times when people get hurt in relationships and they carry that baggage and negativity to new relationships.  Unfortunately, that is a receipe for disaster and should never be done.  After relationships go sour people move so fast and get into another one, because of the fear of dating, being single or rejected.  There is no time taken to get back to loving yourself, you move so quickly into a "rebound" relationship, which could eventually get that other person as well as yourself hurt because you aren't truly ready to be in another relationship.  The best thing to do is remember to love yourself more than anyone else can, and enjoy being single.  Allow another persons love to be an assist not a necessity. 
Easier said than done, right?