Don't settle

I have spoken to quite a few women who have been in past relationships and still haven't gotten over their ex.  They try and ruin what the other person has and unfortunately has no respect for the new woman in the man's life.  They are steady calling, texting, sending emails and reaching for something that isnt there.   Now, on the other hand, the ex has moved on, started a family and could care less about his old life.  Fortunately, the woman that the man is with now, is secure in her relationship and knowing that another woman could never take her place.  I ask these women why they would subject themselves to be turned down and ignored.  They didn't have an answer.

Women:  Please stop searching for love and attention with a man that his moved on and doesn't want anything to do with you.

Men:  Continue to praise that irreplaceable woman that you are with, and do not entertain the one you left, for a reason.

Why settle for less?