What are you doing this weekend?
It's the weekend, time for fun in the sun, family gatherings and for some just a peace of mind from the work place.
What are you doing this weekend?
Sometimes in life we have to deal with a lot of different unfortunate things. Death in your family, loss of a job or just a series of bad luck. It's easier sad than done, but you have to learn to accept the inevitable and move on. Like the saying goes .. when life hands you lemons make lemonade, right?
As I hold life in my hand, and fear in my mind. I couldn't move forward, I was stuck in time. An out of body experience, that's what I would say. I had no idea why I felt this way. Functioning daily, in a crazed sense.I was losing my mind, I was convinced. Sleepless nights, cried all day. What else could I do, but pray? Calling on God, looking for light. I just wanted one sleepless night. Days passed, then went weeks. Where is my God,that everyone seeks? Just when I thought I couldn't take no more. My God came in and began to restore.Tears of joy, for the replacement of my dismantle. I knew My God wouldn't give me more than I could handle.
Did God lift You Up In Your Darkess Moments?
Married or in a relationship, desiring anothers attention, affection, love? Im sure we all have been there but it's how you go about dealing with your desires that seperates us. The continuous mental and physical back and forth is the most destructive. You allow yourself to try and see if the grass might be greener on the other side, instead of watering your own grass and making your situation better. You lead both parties on making them believe that there is something there, while all the time, you haven't figured out what you want. Very seldom in these situations do people try and hurt the other's feelings on purpose, unless you are being vicous, but it happens everytime. It is not fair to anyone.
Have you figured it out?
There are so many times when people get hurt in relationships and they carry that baggage and negativity to new relationships. Unfortunately, that is a receipe for disaster and should never be done. After relationships go sour people move so fast and get into another one, because of the fear of dating, being single or rejected. There is no time taken to get back to loving yourself, you move so quickly into a "rebound" relationship, which could eventually get that other person as well as yourself hurt because you aren't truly ready to be in another relationship. The best thing to do is remember to love yourself more than anyone else can, and enjoy being single. Allow another persons love to be an assist not a necessity.
Easier said than done, right?
I've seen so many women these days deciding that it is best to go natural, dont get me wrong becausae I am a natural woman and have been for a long time now, it just seems all of a sudden. My decision to go natural came from within, I love the natural texture of my hair and didnt want to destroy it with chemicals.
Do you feel like women are going natural because it is a deep desire or are they going natural because everyone else is doing it?
Do you ever wonder why a single woman will try and talk to a married man or a man in a realtionship but turn their noses up to a SINGLE man that might talk to a few different women? Do they flock to the committed man thinking they will commit to them? Are they desperate for attention? Do they enjoy the thrill of being the other woman? Oh, don't let them get in a realtionship, they will be ready to slash the tires of another woman that looks too long at their man, lol.
Do you have a secret that is eating at you? So many people have things that they hold in, not wanting anyone to know due to the fear of rejection or being judged. You should always have someone that will listen to you, allowing things to fester and build is a deadly combination.
Who do you tell your deep dark secrets to?
Everyone has met a woman so heart broken and distraught from a past relationship they were hurt in; she focuses all her attention on how to get even with the one that damaged them or even try and destroy the new relationship their ex is in. Strong is the woman that learns from the mistakes of a past relationship and uses that knowledge to prevent herself form making those same choices again.
Are you that strong woman?
Would you choose a man with all the money in the world that had nothing to offer you mentally or an average Joe that didnt have much but was rich in spirit? So many women choose a man that has a fat bank account and wouldn`t mind getting a fat lip, because he goes upside your head the first time you talk back or step out of line, not to mention having to deal with the three other women in his life, just to walk around with a name brand bag or red at the bottom of their shoes. It's so crazy that the decent man that wants to take you to dinner, have a real coversation and doesnt mind having one woman are what is so commonly known as "thirsty." What is thirsty about being respected and appreciated by a man? We are queens, worth more than a pair of heels or designer hand bags.
Do you know your worth?